Here’s the real deal on why she’s faking the big ‘O.’
Do women fake an orgasm? I hate to break it to you but yes, women do indeed fake orgasms and have been doing so for quite some time now! But the more important question is:Why do they fake orgasms?
Here are 10 reasons women fake orgasms:
1. Women want to please their partner.
You know how a guy will often say that
if he can bring a woman to orgasm, it not only turns him on to watch the
pleasure he brings his partner, but also brings him closer to his own
climax as well. Since a woman is always looking to please her man,
faking an orgasm will put a smile on his face, and boost his ego at the
same time!
2. Everyone loves a challenge.
Women get a little thrill from being
able to control a guy’s gradual climb to a climax. It is a feeling of
power. The challenge comes in seeing how excited you can get your guy,
and how long you can prolong his orgasm. The fact that a woman can get
her guy off with a fake orgasm, whenever she feels like it, can be very
satisfying.
3. She’s not in the mood.
Sad but true, sometimes women really are
not in the mood and just want to get it over with. Again, so as not to
bruise her man’s ego, the woman will simply act out a fake orgasm in
order to give her partner pleasure.
4. Pain is not always good.
Although some people get aroused when there’s some level of pain during sex,
not all pain is good pain. If a woman is experiencing pain or
discomfort during intercourse, it could be an indication that something
is medically wrong. Nevertheless, she may simply fake it to bring things
to an end more quickly, rather than say something and spoil her mate’s
enthusiasm.
5. Things get too comfortable.
At some point, in every relationship,
things get comfortable and we start to let things go, including our
physical appearance. We might frequently skip gym, indulge in decadent
desserts, and forget too often to dress up and look nice for our
significant other. Well, all these things do in fact have an impact on
our desire for one another. If a man gets a beer gut, that can
definitely dampen a woman’s fires, she may fake orgasms instead of
hurting his feelings.
6. She’s trying to avoid fighting.
One piece of advice for all couples
is that you should NOT go to bed angry. Well, sometimes, it happens
regardless. In order to avoid an argument, females will often swallow
their disappointment, and go through the necessary bedroom motions,
while pretending to enjoy it.
7. His technique is lacking.
Communication is the key to success in a
relationship and all tiers of that relationship. And communication
during sex is very important, especially when you are getting to know
each other’s particular pleasures. A woman knows her own body, so when
she tells you to speed things up or slow them down, pay attention to her
“coaching.” If she wants a certain position, take the hint, make her
happy, and she won’t have to fake it.
8. It’s taking too long.
Most women cannot climax within minutes.
Many are self-conscious, thinking that they are taking too long to
climax, causing their partner to become tired. Thus, the woman kicks in
the theatrics so her man feels like he has done a good job.
9. Men and women are different.
Although sex encounters for men are
typically “great,” most women will reach orgasm more easily with someone
they feel a connection with. If a certain level of trust has been
established, a woman will feel relaxed in the arms of her partner,
resulting in enjoyable and satisfying sex.
Nonetheless, keep in mind that women can still enjoy sex without having an orgasm.
10. It’s not going to happen — NOT like that!
Not all women can achieve orgasm through intercourse, some can only reach it through clitoralstimulation; in most cases, oral sex is the best bet.
Candis provides online content for the Female Orgasm Secrets website.
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