
Below is the near-death experience a young lady had with a man who was her BBM friend:I am a girl who has fears, beliefs, reservations and just your regular typical Nigerian girl. This past few weeks has been one hell of a game for me. I have really been unsettled and I thought I share this story with you.I am a graduate and currently serving in Kaduna. I could have runced it, but I needed somewhere to clear my head and forget about my ugly encounter. Here is my story.I happened to have a married man as a contact on my BBM. He had been asking me out for over six months and I refused to date him. As time went on, he invited me clubbing with him when his wife was outside the country, and I went with him all night. We spent most of the night at Swe bar, Lagos.
I also met his clique of friends,
married as well with their various mistresses. We had ‘mad’ fun. After
all the clubbing and drinking, he lodged me in a hotel somewhere in
Obalende. I felt sort of safe with him. We did not have s e’x, but he
made sweet love to me and touched me in places I had never ever
imagined.
He kissed me passionately but guess what? He did not have s e’x with me. We did all sorts but there was no penetration. So, to an extent, I trusted he was a good person to be around with.
He kissed me passionately but guess what? He did not have s e’x with me. We did all sorts but there was no penetration. So, to an extent, I trusted he was a good person to be around with.
I did not know that it was all part of the plan.
He gave me N10,000 and put me in a cab
to go home the next morning. We kept talking and chatting and sending na
k’ed pictures to each other and he told me naughty things of how he
wanted to whisper things in my ear, I blushed. We didn’t see for two
weeks and that was because his wife just came back from Turkey.
One faithful evening, he pinged me that
he was organising a beach party/boat cruise and that he would love for
me to be his date and that he wanted to open a BBM chat, as a medium for
his friends and my friends to interact. I was excited about it, I just
wanted to have fun. I was able to get five of my very hot friends.
The BBM group opened and we got
chatting. I also realise that majority of them were married and working
in reputable firms. It was fun and we didn’t mind if they were married,
we just wanted to have fun, as well as some other girls apart from my
friends in the group.
We chatted exclusively, sent pictures to
the BBM group to introduce ourselves, and we had opened group
conversations pending the beach party. And as excited as we were, we
went shopping for nice s e’xy beach wears.
The D-day finally came, we all assembled
at the Lagos Island Boat Club. I was wowed because it was a high class
party. We were cruising in a boat loaded with goodies drinks and hot
babes, and as well ‘MARRIED MEN’. I did not care, I just said in my mind
that I would not roll with married men anymore after this, that for
now, all I wanted to do was to catch some fun. After all, I wasn’t
paying bills.
We got there, it was a private beach
resort. Most of the beach facilities I got to see there were owned by
multinational companies. We got out of the boat, and went to where we
were partying. It was a duplex made with wood. It was a very nice
setting.
I felt comfortable because it even had a
fence around it separating it from other beach houses around. So, there
was privacy and of course bouncers (heavy looking guys) guarding the
place. I said to myself, this must be heaven, I must be dreaming.
Anyways, we felt free with each other
because we had been chatting. It was 5:30pm and the party just started.
We had drinks flowing from the private bar tender which happens to be
owned by one of the men in the group. Reality struck when I realised
that I was feeling dizzy and feeling really funny and light headed. Not
only me, but other girls around me too noticed there was something
strange about it.
I was also feeling HORNY as hell! I had
been drugged. They monitored us and when they knew the drug had really
gone deep into our system, they moved us up into the main beach house. I
could still see faces, but was too weak and horny to react
Mr B, the man who took me clubbing,
carried me in his hands like a sacrifice and put me down on the floor
just as other men also did with their girls. We were eight in numbers; 8
girls, 8 guys, and they all stri*ped us down and had s e’x with us.
I enjoyed it a bit because I was horny.
It was a mixed feeling because I cried, I moaned, but I did not know how
many times he came into me. He pounded me hard. I was dizzy, but he
grabbed me with force. All I could notice was the wedding ring on his
finger. I thought of how wicked and miserable some married can be. How
inhuman and heartless they could be.
All of them took turns in switching
partners and slept with all of us. I passed out. That was the last thing
I could remember. I felt water poured on me. I noticed all the other
girls around me too were half na k’ed and some stark na k’ed.
We spent the night at the beach, but the
men were no where to be found. I looked round me and all I could see
was packs of used condoms. I ran to pick my cloths and possibly raise an
alarm. I got dressed, found my phone with an envelope. It contained
N16,000 and a note asking us to take N2000 each for transport. Tears of
anger and rage filled my eyes and the girls around me as well.
“We were drugged and used like tissue
paper. I grabbed my phone and noticed a ping came in. I checked my phone
and I noticed the BBM group had been deleted, and a message via BBM
from MR B came in. He threatened me that if I say a word to anyone, I
would regret it.
I told him he was a bastard, and he said
try it. A picture came in, several pictures. In fact, they were
pictures of us being na k’ed on the floor. Pictures of the humiliating
us but they blurred the faces of the men. In total, I got 20 pictures. I
was not myself for a month.
I went back to school, I had no one to
talk to. The rest of the semester was hell for me. My CGPA dropped
drastically. It was the worst out of the worst result I ever had.
Till today, my friends and I have not
discussed this with anyone, but all I could do when I heard of Cynthia’s
story was to narrate my own ordeal anonymously and spread the news, the
word, and pray they (ladies who do runs) see it and changed their ways.
I am now born again. I have given my
life to Christ. I fear men so much that I cannot even move close to
them. I still have nightmares, but with time, God will strengthen me and
I will move on. My advice to single ladies out there is, do not be
desperate for fun. Pray to God to open your eyes of understanding, and
pray hard. He who kneels before God will stand before kings and queens.
To all married women, pray hard to God
to intervene in your marriages and turn your husbands from bad habits
and bad friends. As for me, I do not think I ever want to get married or
date a man again. That chapter has been closed for good in my life.
Please, do not ignore my mail. Please
post it. There are a lot of things we ladies need to learn. Please post
it on your blog and save a soul. It could be your friend, sister,
cousin, neighbour.
God bless you as you pass it on. To all readers, I do not care if you insult me or rain abuses at me. My job is to share this encounter with you and save you from any mishap. God bless you all. Amen.
God bless you as you pass it on. To all readers, I do not care if you insult me or rain abuses at me. My job is to share this encounter with you and save you from any mishap. God bless you all. Amen.
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